Conversations that’s the key. If I had to think of what is the most important thing for a human being to do in his/her lifespan is to pass down information and the best way to do that is by having conversation but if all your conversations are full of bullshit. We wont get any were will we.
I’m a 16-year-old boy and I’m already tired of superficial conversation over the summer I’ve had more than many people talk to me with no purpose. The conversation start with hello and ends with one of use leaving the other on seen because there was clearly no topic of conversation and the time is just wasted.
Modern day technology has brought us Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram, Twitter, etc. and its inundated with nonsense. Words that turn out to mean nothing. Since this generation doesn’t spend their time thinking about that they want to say or talk about themselves they think about what their peer wants them to say and what they should say to be loved and accepted. What’s the point? If your not going to express who you are. I for one am guilty of these superficial conversations. I’m 16 years old and still have fun messing around, although I still have moments where these talk just get boring. Don’t you think so?
Silence is better than nonsense
Silence might even be key to a great conversation. Silence allows one to think about what they are going to say and make sure that there words are hosen wisely and help the conversation mean something’s. I can’t count how many times I have been talking with someone and the topic dies out and before a minute of silence passes I hear
“sooooooo …… what’s new”
We already spent 10 minutes talking about my weekend because you asked isn’t this basically the same question.
Anne Lindbergh once said “Good conversation is as stimulating as black coffee and just as hard to sleep after.”
So why have our conversations come to the point where there can be a moment of silence. I don’t know how your conversations go but I’m sure that every week you go by dozens of these pointless conversations. It happens all the time especially when you encounter a friend that you don’t speak to much. You feel obligated to greet them but sometimes have nothing to ask him or her.
I sometimes think about the people that surround me are they helping me grow? I think it’s a question that everyone should ask himself or herself every day before they get up. What if they don’t help you grow? What if your conversations turn out as memories? Does that mean your not growing? If you think so you have the wrong misconception of growing. We don’t just grow intellectually we grow spiritually and emotionally, etc. We need friends that will help us grow in all aspects.
According to the video below we have roughly 2,740 days to spend on life. Are you really willing to spend your days having a superficial conversation that will turnout to take you nowhere? People always say your soul mate should be someone that pushes you to be better every day I believe that this doesn’t just go for your soul mate but for everyone in your life. They should be there to help you grow and you should be there to help hem grow. So the next time your going to speak to someone think about what’s your going to say to speak to fill in the void. Think and make sure that when you do speak its something meaningful. Life is short don’t pend it on nonsense.
Silence can turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you.
I’m a 16-year-old boy and I’m already tired of superficial conversation over the summer I’ve had more than many people talk to me with no purpose. The conversation start with hello and ends with one of use leaving the other on seen because there was clearly no topic of conversation and the time is just wasted.
Modern day technology has brought us Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram, Twitter, etc. and its inundated with nonsense. Words that turn out to mean nothing. Since this generation doesn’t spend their time thinking about that they want to say or talk about themselves they think about what their peer wants them to say and what they should say to be loved and accepted. What’s the point? If your not going to express who you are. I for one am guilty of these superficial conversations. I’m 16 years old and still have fun messing around, although I still have moments where these talk just get boring. Don’t you think so?
Silence is better than nonsense
Silence might even be key to a great conversation. Silence allows one to think about what they are going to say and make sure that there words are hosen wisely and help the conversation mean something’s. I can’t count how many times I have been talking with someone and the topic dies out and before a minute of silence passes I hear
“sooooooo …… what’s new”
We already spent 10 minutes talking about my weekend because you asked isn’t this basically the same question.
Anne Lindbergh once said “Good conversation is as stimulating as black coffee and just as hard to sleep after.”
So why have our conversations come to the point where there can be a moment of silence. I don’t know how your conversations go but I’m sure that every week you go by dozens of these pointless conversations. It happens all the time especially when you encounter a friend that you don’t speak to much. You feel obligated to greet them but sometimes have nothing to ask him or her.
I sometimes think about the people that surround me are they helping me grow? I think it’s a question that everyone should ask himself or herself every day before they get up. What if they don’t help you grow? What if your conversations turn out as memories? Does that mean your not growing? If you think so you have the wrong misconception of growing. We don’t just grow intellectually we grow spiritually and emotionally, etc. We need friends that will help us grow in all aspects.
According to the video below we have roughly 2,740 days to spend on life. Are you really willing to spend your days having a superficial conversation that will turnout to take you nowhere? People always say your soul mate should be someone that pushes you to be better every day I believe that this doesn’t just go for your soul mate but for everyone in your life. They should be there to help you grow and you should be there to help hem grow. So the next time your going to speak to someone think about what’s your going to say to speak to fill in the void. Think and make sure that when you do speak its something meaningful. Life is short don’t pend it on nonsense.
Silence can turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you.